Life-Giving Words of Hope & Encouragement

Grief is a universal language. It transcends species, borders, and time. Few stories illustrate this truth as poignantly as that of Tahlequah, the orca whale whose heartbreaking display of mourning captured the world’s attention.

In 2018, Tahlequah, a member of the endangered Southern Resident orca population, gave birth to a calf that died shortly after being born. What followed was an extraordinary and heart-wrenching journey: for 17 days and over 1,000 miles, Tahlequah carried her dead calf on her head, refusing to let it go. Her actions spoke volumes about the depth of her grief, an emotion many of us know all too well. The image of her carrying her calf became a symbol of loss and the enduring weight of sorrow.

Grief has a way of pulling us into its undertow, often when we least expect it. Like waves in the ocean, it can crash over us with surprising force, leaving us gasping for air. There are times when we feel as if we’ll never reach the shore again. Tahlequah’s journey reminds us of our own struggles to let go, to move forward when the weight of loss feels insurmountable.

But her story doesn’t end in sorrow. Recently, Tahlequah, whose name means “two is enough,” gave birth to a healthy calf, bringing hope and joy to those who have followed her journey. This new life is a testament to resilience and renewal. It’s a reminder that even after the darkest storms, the sun can rise again, and seasons of mourning can give way to seasons of rejoicing.

For those of us navigating our own journeys through grief, Tahlequah’s story offers both comfort and hope. It’s okay to carry the weight of loss for a time; it’s part of the healing process. But we are not meant to carry it forever. In time, and with God’s grace, we can find the strength to let go, to look toward the horizon, and to embrace new beginnings.

Scripture reminds us of this truth: “Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning” (Psalm 30:5). Just as Tahlequah’s journey shifted from sorrow to celebration, so too can ours. God walks with us through every valley, offering us comfort and the promise of brighter days ahead.

Grief is a journey, not a destination. It’s marked by ups and downs, moments of despair, and glimpses of hope. Tahlequah’s story reminds us to honor our pain, to be patient with ourselves, and to trust that joy will come again—perhaps in ways we never imagined. Whether you’re in a season of mourning or rejoicing, know that you are not alone. Like Tahlequah, you too can find your way to hope and healing. I pray this speaks to you, and brings comfort to anyone dealing with grief.